Relationship Tip from John Gray

When a man simply listens and accepts a woman's feelings instead of objecting to them or trying to convince her to feel another way, she feels loved by him. He is validating her feelings and confirming her right to feel the way she does. It's important to remember that he doesn't need to have the same point of view to validate her feelings or point of view. When a man learns how to validate a woman's feelings - even when he disagrees with those feelings - he is more likely to receive the approval that he primarily needs... Every man wants to be his woman's hero and gain her approval. A woman's approving attitude looks for the good reasons behind what he does and conveys a feeling of Read more [...]