"Men and women each have six unique love needs that are equally important. You can better understand the needs of your partner by better understanding each of these kinds of love. Men primarily need trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, and encouragement. Women primarily need caring, understanding, respect, devotion, validation, and reassurance. Certainly every man and woman need all twelve kinds of love. A man becomes fully receptive to and appreciative of the six kinds of love primarily needed by women when his own primary love needs are fulfilled. Likewise a woman needs her primary love needs fulfilled before she can begin to truly value a man's six primary Read more [...]

No Surprise to me. I was wondering how long this would last, given the "invisible differences"! Not to metion, how controlling I hear he is. I do know, according to The Compatikey Relationship Mapping System, that his "Stress Tolerance" is low. When someone has this, it's crutial they find healthy ways of dealing with stress, otherwise they take it out on others with anger and controlling behavior. Most people don't realize it takes effort from both people to maintain a healthy relationship, but with some opposite key styles and not being aware of them, it's close to impossible to stay together in a healthy manner. Here's further understanding of the Katie and Tom's invisible differences, Read more [...]