8 Mistakes Men & Women Make in Arguments

Relationship Expert, John Gray share's these tips about how to avoid fights in your relationship: 8 mistakes MEN make in an argument 1. Aggressive tone or loud voice Men can care so much about being right that they don't realize that they often sound threatening and overwhelming. 2. Condescending comments Phrases like, "Don't worry about it." or "It's not a big deal." are big mistakes because it does not acknowledge her feelings. 3. Interrupting her with arguments that invalidate her feelings or correct her observations A typical comment would be "You shouldn't feel that way." Instead of taking time to reflect and saying something like, "I understand you think that..." 4. Read more [...]

Climate of Trust

According to John Gottman from his 40 years of research with couples, creating a “Climate of Trust” is key to satisfying & long lasting relationships.

We all need help with this, however, since we only speak our “hormonal/gender specific language”, because that’s what comes most natural to us.

The beginning of creating a “Climate of Trust”  is understanding the differences that create conflict. It’s through this understanding we can have compassion, acceptance and openness to learn skills on how to listen & communicate across the hormonal/gender differences so we can have a “Climate of Trust” in which we and our relationships can flourish! 🙂

Welcome to my website blog

            Offering Free Introductory to: Massage for Women   Love & Relationship Consulting        I work with singles who want to date more successfully & anyone looking for clarity and understanding in any relationship. You'll find lots of testimonials around the site, including what "They're Saying" on the left. The Blog below is mainly showing you Celebrity Relationships seen thru the lens of the Compatikey Relationship Mapping System, which is the core of my Love and Relationship Consulting. Read more [...]

YouTube – Couples Retreat (2009) -Official Movie Trailer [HQ]

This is a great movie to watch on Valentines Day…or any day! I loved this movie! It touched on many of the issues, joys and frustrations couples face. I was pleased with the way they integrated humor with the depth of feeling that is present in partnerships. Entertaining and enlightening, as well as an opportunity to experience a taste of the beauty in Bora Bora at the St. Regis Resort!YouTube – Couples Retreat (2009) -Official Movie Trailer [HQ].

Brad and Angelina

Angelina is a Basketball/Pencil, and Brad is a Football/Pen. Their Inner Style is extreme.Angelina has a higher tolerance for stress, and likes to keep things "stimulating"! Hang in there Brad....I'm sure you feel it's well worth the work! :)Relationship Science: What we have in common is far more likely to sustain long-term and meaningful relationships than what is different about us.  Understanding our visible and invisible differences is a key to diminishing or eliminating misunderstandings. More understanding, less conflict, more love! 😀  Compatikey show’s the “invisible” similarities and differences! Contact me to find out your Relationship and Plan Style for free! Read more [...]