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Valentines Day Survival Tips for Singles

Love experts say we are here to grow in our ability to give and receive love.
Be loving with yourself and enjoy the day! :-)

Here are some suggestions:

  • Buy yourself something you would love i.e.: flowers and chocolate
  • Take a long, luxurious bubble bath, with candles and soft music
  • Make yourself a special dinner and watch a feel good movie
  • Make a list of the things you love and appreciate about yourself!
  • Ask a friend to have dinner and watch an enjoyable movie
  • Go out to a singles event or bar. Dress to attract!
  • There’s a singles jazz night at the Clarion Hotel in Northampton, on Valentines Day 7pm
  • Check out meetup.com to find people with similar interests ie: singles, hiking, dining etc.
  • Explore some singles sites online
  • Make a list of the qualities you’d like to have in a partner
  • Contact me to help you write or update a personal ad and how to attract your ideal partner
February 13th, 2012 | Category: Relationship Advice | Leave a comment mark@techeffective.net

Whitney & Bobby’s Tumultuous Relationship

It was no secret that Whitney Houston and Bobby Brown had a very intense relationship filled with conflict. No surprise, looking at their relationship through the lens of The Compatikey Relationship Mapping System, we can see why.

They were opposite Relationship Styles. Whitney was a Football Relationship Style, and Bobby was the Basketball Relationship Style.

Meaning Whitney liked stability and ease in relationship and Bobby liked stimulation and a lot going on in relationship.

Their physical chemistry was out of balance. She had a “magnetic” attraction to him and he had a “neutral” attraction to her, and their movement chemistry, was “clumsy”.

Their heart chemistry was the strongest and equal to each other. That’s was the glue of that relationship, but it was also their curse, because of the opposites everywhere else, and they had no tangible understanding of this or how to work with it.

Without the understanding of these “hidden” differences, and how to manage it, it’s enough to drive two people crazy, especially Whitney, since she was the Football Relationship style with the magnetic attraction to Bobby.

Wishing everyone, less conflict and more love.

February 12th, 2012 | Tags: , , | Category: Celebrity Relationships | Leave a comment patty@pattygates.com

Relationship Tip: Tone of Voice is Key!

Have you ever noticed the effect your tone of voice has on someone, especially your partner? It’s powerful!

It can make the difference between being seen as supportive and loving or as critical and hurtful.

Pause before you respond, consider what you want to relay and adjust your tone.

Wishing you more love and ease in your relationships!

February 10th, 2012 | Category: Uncategorized | Leave a comment patty@pattygates.com