This is a very sad situation. My heart really goes out to Sandra.
This is a case where so many things on the “hidden ingredients” were similar, but there were more things on the “visible ingredients” that were disimilar! I’m thinking it was the “hidden stuff” that drew them together, and because it was so beautiful and felt so easy, that they thought they could just make it work, or, I’m guessing, she thought she could anyway, despite their lifestyle differences.
People magazine readers voted them “MOST IN LOVE”
“Best Actress Sandra Bullock and husband Jesse James were, hands-down, the loviest, cuddliest, schmoopiest couple at the awards, with a whopping 68% of readers picking the twosome as most in love.” from people.com
Here’s their Compatikey results: They have more “sameness” on the hidden ingreidents than “difference’s”. They have the same Relationship Style, both Footballs.
You can see and feel the “magnetic” chemistry, and their “movement chemistry” is “in sync”.
Their “Inner Style” is “smooth and easy”. They do have an opposite ‘Plan Style”. She’s a “Pen” and he’s a “Pencil”. All and all, this is an easy, fun, full of great chemistry. It’s too bad, this happened, but it was seemingly inevitable.
Relationship Science: What we have in common is far more likely to sustain long-term and meaningful relationships than what is different about us. Understanding our visible and invisible differences is a key to diminishing or eliminating misunderstandings. More understanding, less conflict, more love! 😀
Compatikey show’s the “invisible” similarities and differences!
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