I was wondering how long this relationship was going to last!
If they would have had the understanding that they have different relationship styles and different plan styles and how to manage that, they may not be where they are at now. This information could help them heal their relationship.
So here are the stats: Johnny is the “Football Relationship Style” meaning he likes stability and ease in relationship. Vanessa is the “Basketball Relationship Style”, meaning she likes stimulation and a lot going on in relationship.
Johnny is the “Pencil Plan Style” meaning he likes to go with the flow. Vanessa is the “Pen Plan Style”, meaning she likes to have a plan.
So, you could imagine how having these differences and not knowing them, could create a lot of conflict in any relationship.
Oh, I meant to also mention, they both have a low tolerance for stress….and conflict can be exhausting!
The glue of this relationship is/was their “Heart Chemistry”….which is the same towards each other. When they met, I bet it felt like they’d known each other for centuries.
The “Physical Chemistry” is out of balance, but their “Movement Chemistry” is playful and friendly.
I’m a romantic. I’m holding out hope for them, meaning I’m hoping they get in touch with me so they have a higher chance of making this relationship work, if they choose to.
Patty “The Love Doctor” 😉
Helping people have less conflict and more love!