Making Relationships Work through Understanding

March 30, 2014

Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water!The “baby” I speak of is the Relationship!

Don”t get rid of a man because he’s not a women! This is what women unconsciously do! (Men for that matter too.)

Relationships generally end because we don’t realize the gender and energetic differences that create conflict in our relationships, so we expect the other person to act and respond the same way we do or would.

I hear from women “I keep picking unavailable men.” For the most part they are saying they aren’t available to do relationship the same way they do.

Men generally aren’t available for (too long if at all):

communication about emotions or intuition (this is something unique to women or higher estrogen based men)

What they generally are available for:

fixing things, finding solutions, accomplishing tasks

sex

companionship (not to be confused with the much needed girlfriend time)

providing financial contribution

You may be thinking he (or she) was available and more responsive to you in the beginning of your relationship. That’s because of the hormones that get magically adjusted in the early part of the relationship called “the honeymoon phase”, where biologically this happens for procreation to take place easier. Plain and simple. Then after about a year or so our hormones go back to our normal state, and we start responding from our specific gender hormones, which animates our brains quite differently.

For some understanding of the gender differences check out the articles under “Free Stuff” in the “Store” or set up a “Coaching Session” and get started on having more peace and fulfillment in your life.