| This is from a woman who’s “Plan Style” is a “Pencil” and her partner is a “Pen”. After her session with me, she’s able to let go of judgement and blame of herself and her partner regarding planning. This is what she has to say: ”Thank you again for the fascinating session! You’ll be glad to know that when Tom made a classic Pen statement about a meeting we’re planning, I smiled (inside myself) and savored the feeling of, “oh yeah, I understand why he’s saying this. It’s totally reasonable.” Carlyn Saltman videomirrorfeedback.com Greenfield Ma.
Years ago I was entering into a new relationship that involved a pretty major move across the country. I was feeling pretty good about my choice, but I consulted Patty and received a Love Consult about this new relationship… just in case. The consult confirmed my choice, which helped me to feel even more confident. Patty also gave us some very specific advice that I followed, and I’m convinced it helped us make this relationship work even better. Now almost ten happy years later, I still look back on that Consult with Patty as extremely helpful and spot on. I recommend Patty and Compatikey! Sylvia Brallier Las Vegas, NV I am really loving this understanding of the the Relationship Style’s and the Plan Styles, as well as the movement chemistry. I’m a Football/Pen. I’m so happy to know that there are Basketball/Pencils in the world. It makes it so much easier to live my life, and be less judgemental and be more accepting and forgiving. Since my daughter (Basketball/Pencil) moved out , my son, who is also a Football/Pen, and I have had such peace and ease. We had “clumsy” movement chemisty too. I love her and always will. Now thanks to the understanding Compatikey gives me, it makes it so much easier! CM Mass. I’ve been using Compatikey as a dating tool for some time. All my past relationships and dates in the past two years have had combinations that haven’t worked for me. I had been realizing what combinations I could imagine would be nice to have. Then I met a man, and instantly I knew this felt quite different than all the others I had dated. So, I thought, I wonder if he has the combinations that work for me. I was very excited when I checked it out on Compatikey, to see he does! Now, not only do I feel the difference, I know the difference! M.K., Mass.I’m familiar with Compatikey terminology enough to know that it validates my experiences! I have been quite impressed by what I’ve seen thus far , but I have to say my latest additions to my grid has totally confirmed it for me! Before I put in the dates, I guessed what Relationship Style and possibly plan style these people are. The combinations that work for me? I’m a football pen and for intimate relationships, I definitely prefer basketball pen girls, balanced chemistry 1 and 2 with in Sync movement chemistry, and either moderately or heavily mixed inner style. Even though I’ve dated a lot, I still had a hard time understanding women. Compatikey makes a big difference. I’m starting to get the hidden ingredients, combinations that work thing. I might even consider getting married after a some more research! Joel S., New Haven Ct CTW for me? (combinations that work for me) That’s easy. I put 10 serious relationships, my clearly dysfunctional family members and one X wife on my grid and I almost instantly saw what didn’t work. 3 more months of dating and I’ve got my combinations down. Football pencil, yellow stress management, level 3 chemistry with synchronized movement, a balanced level 2 or level 3 resonance, a smooth and easy mix inner style. I’m a big fan of tech and I have all the gadgets for the fun, convenience and efficiency they offer. But Compatikey is the first use of tech that offered me life changing value. You guys are brilliant, I’m subscribed for life! Can I buy stock? Vincent R., Cambridge, MA I look for the relationship style and plan style first BIG time important for me! Next on my list is to make sure the chemistry is how I like it. Balanced and level 2 or 3, because my past history revealed that my most difficult relationships each had mostly level 3 chemistry, but the wrong combinations of relationship style and plan style for me. As a result, I was always like a moth to a flame to that chemistry and got burned every time. NO MORE. I’m more in control now because of Compatikey. I can have that chemistry I’ve always been attracted to AND the style combinations that work for me! Soooooo important, and my experience proved it! Patrice M. USA Oh yeah. Compatikey is my key! I card my dates now so I can be sure of the birthday. If they won’t show me, they won’t know me. I’m not !#*&ing around! I’m a Football Pen, I know what I want and now I really know how to get it. It will be so great when everyone is a member and I won’t have to ask for an ID. Who am I kidding, I’m a pen, and I have a plan! I will anyway. Besides It’s a great sincerity test. Wallets please gentlemen! Yes, the gold card is very nice, but I’m looking for the DL with the birthdate! No? NEXT. Diane, NYC My name is Kevin, I’m a Basketball/pen and all of my past relationships have been with women with whom I’ve had some level 3 chemistry with. I like that level, and I’m not interested in settling down. I like being single. I enjoy the prospect of using Compatikey to make my search on the internet more efficient so I only go out with a specific combination that works for me. The chemistry piece is the most important thing to me. On Compatikey for Understanding Existing RelationshipsCompatikey works! It is amazing how I am able to communicate better, and understand the interpersonal interaction, and enjoy my work, by applying what I have learned from my Compatikey in work group.My boss and I have totally different approaches to solving problems ( Inner Style is “heavily mixed”). If I didn’t understand these differences, that were validated through Compatikey in an understandable way, work would be miserable! Understanding that we have opposing (clumsy feet) yet complimentary styles, enables me to not get stuck in the relationship, and taking things personally. I am able to embrace and work with these differences to communicate and problem solve effectively. Gail L., Massachusetts I can’t believe something so simple could be so powerful. It changed my level of expectation of my basketball husband, and helped me not take his “basketballness” so personally. I’m a football and he’s a basketball. It still isn’t easy, but it has allowed me to stop condemning him for how he is in relationships, and how he operates in the world. Kim, Massachusetts |
| The past doesn’t lie. I got divorced a year ago. I’m a football Pen. My first boyfriend was a basketball Pen. My second boyfriend was a basketball Pencil. My husband was a basketball Pencil. I’ve learned something I know is very important for me. Basketball relationship style doesn’t work for me! I’m now dating a Football Pen and a Football Pencil and I’m really beginning to understand the difference. Oh yeah, and my dad was a basketball pen! I’m really understanding the combinations that work for me. Thank you Compatikey. Jennifer, Worcester, Mass
I found out that my plan style was pencil and for the first time in my life I’m really appreciating and enjoy that about me! I grew up in a family of five, all of them are pens. I always felt like I didn’t fit in, and sometimes they made me feel like there was something wrong with me. I get it now. I always loved them anyway because they’re my family. But now I can forgive them, and except myself as a perfect pencil. Nicholas P. , Amherst Mass I’m a Football/Pencil. Personally I find it more easeful to relate with other football pencils, especially if there are other combinations at work for me. Sarah, Ma. I’m a Basketball Pen. I’m ok with either relationship style. For me, it’s the same plan style that I find important. Gail, Ma I use to think there was something wrong with the way I schedule things, and I was judging others in my circle. Most of the people I deal with are pencils. I use to call them immature for changing plans or not making them. They would think that I’m too restrictive or have too high of expectations. Now that I understand the differences in the “plan style” I can work with them better. Thank you. Molly, Ct. I am a football/pencil. My other family members are all basketball pens. I’m extremely sensitive and anxious. I developed an eating disorder from trying to live up to the expectations of my family. Since I’ve seen my significant relationships on my “Compatikey” grid, it made all the sense in the world to me. I felt confident to let go of trying to please my family members (which meant trying to be more like them ). I’m now living a healthy, happy lifestyle, thanks to my Compatikey understandings. Karen, Fl I am a Football – Pencil, my boyfriend of a year is a Football/Pen. Our inner style is heavily mixed, and we have clumsy feet. For me, it’s been a challenge. He has expectations that are hard for me to meet. We do love each other. It has been hard work but now that I have the understanding I’ve gotten with Compatikey it’s gotten alot easier. Clair, Ma My name is Lisa. I am a pencil and my partner is a pen. It was very useful for us to find that difference. It made so much sense. Now we no longer fight about our plan style difference. We will often just laugh and say..”You’re such a “pen” or “there you go being your pencilness” The acceptance is freeing, and no longer gets in the way of loving each other. My name is Sam. My girlfriend and I have the same relationship and plan style. Our chemistry level is balanced and we have clumbsy feet, that isn’t that noticeable because of the other combinations that work for us. We have a purple in the resonance and an extreme inner style that really works for us. We have a lot of love and fun together. It’s the easiest and best relationship I’ve ever been in. It’s nice to know the inner dimensions at work!I became extremely sensitive and anxious trying to live up to the expectations of my family. Since I’ve seen my significant relationships on my Compatikey grid, it made all the sense in the world to me. I’m now living a healthy, happy lifestyle, thanks to Patty and my Compatikey understandings. -Karen, FL (side note: she is a Football/Pencil and the rest of her family are Basketball/Pens) |
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