To have more peace and love in any relationship, it’s important that men and women understand that we think, feel and communicate differently. We can also have ”invisible differences”, that are at the core of a lot of the conflict in relationships. I show people these invisible differences using The Compatikey Relationship Mapping System®.
You can start having more peace & love in your life:
We are all trying to get our needs met as well as help meet others needs around us, as best we can.
Often we are doing this without much clarity of what ours or others needs are or what the best solutions are to meet those needs, which translates, generally, into messy solutions or win/lose solutions to get needs met.
This can be a confusing process given gender difference in how we listen & communicate, along with other potential differences.
Understanding & Clarity is key to personal & relational peace.
"When one person wins, the relationship looses".
I help people find win/win, so the relationship can be a source of strength and joy for both parties.
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Tips for Singles:
Do something loving for yourself
Make a list of things you love or appreciate about yourself
Buy yourself something you love
Something you’ve been wanting
Browse singles sites online
Do something enjoyable with a friend(s)
Tips for New Relationships
Keep it light & fun
Discuss what you’d like to do together
Tips for Established Relationships
Dinner & movie
Personal love note with what you love & appreciate about your partner
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Here is a simple yet profound exercise to "Practice Peace" so you can be more peaceful & open to enjoying your life in any moment you desire. From this place of peace you can be proactive in getting your needs met, rather than reactive thus creating conflict within yourself and in your life.
This exercise can be done wherever you are, doing whatever you are doing. Especially if you are upset, sad, angry, frustrated, thinking negative thoughts about anything or anyone.
It"s meditation in motion!
Practicing Peace exercise:
Bringing your attention to your breath....
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Men and Women think & feel differently. Generally, a man will ask the question "What do you think", and she will tell you her feelings (or intuition) about something. A women will ask a man " How do you feel", he will tell you what he thinks. It"s a natural way our brains are wired.
A man's opinion or thoughts are just as important as a woman's feelings or intuition. With this understanding you can honor & love each other better.
Here are some helpful tips:
1. For women to know:
If you want a man to listen to you, you'll need to let him know, that it would make you feel better if he "just listen" and that you don’t need him to figure anything out for you or to try Read more [...]
It's been said by many Relationship experts that appreciation is a vital ingredient in your relationships. They also say love and appreciation go hand in hand.
Gary Chapman wrote a book called The 5 Love Languages. He discovered there are different ways people feel loved (and appreciated).
Take the quiz below to find out how you and your partner feel love/appreciated!
Be sure to let others know, so they can show you that you are loved! :)
The 5 Love Languages®
What if you could say or do just the right thing guaranteed to make that special someone feel loved?
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Neurogentic research shows that male and female brains are wired differently, which validates and sheds light on a lot of the conflict we can have in relating with the opposite sex.
My relationship advice is to understand the different preferences our brains have us wired for.
By understanding these differences we can have acceptance and hopefully a sense of humor, when we expect the opposite sex to value or prefer things in the same way we would.
When it's stated below that "male brains prefer", they mean people who have more testosterone in their bodies than estrogen. (Which is about 80% men)
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Understanding your relationship, with this unique report, will help you minimize your relationship challenges, as well as validate the good stuff you're already aware of.
Current, past or potential future relationships.
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Understanding is the key to minimizing relationship problems
One of the biggest relationship problems I hear about, especially from women, is how frustrating and challenging it is to communicate with their partner!
We naturally think because we are taking to another human being that we would be speaking the same language, especially if you both are from the same country. That assumption and expectation is the beginning of the problem, if you are trying to communicate with the opposite sex!
Fortunately there has been a lot of research on gender differences as well as gender communication style differences, that gives us understanding, so we can hopefully develop compassion and acceptance Read more [...]