Understanding is the key to peace & love

logocolorsmallTo have more peace and love in any relationship, it’s important that men and women understand that we think, feel and communicate differently. We can also have “invisible differences”, that are at the core of a lot of the conflict in relationships. I show people these invisible differences using  The Compatikey Relationship Mapping System®.

You can start having more peace & love in your life:

Whether you are single looking to date more successfully or have conflict in any relationship these understandings will impact all areas of your life in an extraordinary way!

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Climate of Trust

According to John Gottman from his 40 years of research with couples, creating a “Climate of Trust” is key to satisfying & long lasting relationships.

We all need help with this, however, since we only speak our “hormonal/gender specific language”, because that’s what comes most natural to us.

The beginning of creating a “Climate of Trust”  is understanding the differences that create conflict. It’s through this understanding we can have compassion, acceptance and openness to learn skills on how to listen & communicate across the hormonal/gender differences so we can have a “Climate of Trust” in which we and our relationships can flourish! :)

Frustrated in relationship?

There is a post going around on Facebook, called "An Open Letter To Men From Sexy Consciously Awake Women". I think the woman who wrote it and the many who share it, have a deep desire to be loved, adored & appreciated. What they clearly don't know yet is the differences between the "masculine & the feminine" person, and how to get their needs met by understanding these important differences. Generally, and not the rule, the "masculine" person is male and the "feminine" person is the female. What makes a masculine person masculine is the amount of testosterone they have in their body, and what makes the feminine person feminine is the amount of estrogen they have in their body. A Read more [...]

Making Relationships Work through Understanding

Don't throw the baby out with the bath water!The "baby" I speak of is the Relationship! Don"t get rid of a man because he's not a women! This is what women unconsciously do! (Men for that matter too.) Relationships generally end because we don't realize the gender and energetic differences that create conflict in our relationships, so we expect the other person to act and respond the same way we do or would. I hear from women "I keep picking unavailable men." For the most part they are saying they aren't available to do relationship the same way they do. Men generally aren't available for (too long if at all): communication about emotions or intuition (this is something unique Read more [...]

Needs & Solutions for Personal & Relational Peace

  We are all trying to get our needs met as well as help meet others needs around us, as best we can. Often we are doing this without much clarity of what ours or others needs are or what the best solutions are to meet those needs, which translates, generally,  into messy solutions or win/lose solutions to get needs met. This can be a confusing process given gender difference in how we listen & communicate, along with other potential differences. Understanding & Clarity is key to personal & relational peace. "When one person wins, the relationship looses". I help people find win/win, so the relationship can be a source of strength and joy for both parties. Check Read more [...]

Valentines Day Tips for Everyone

http://youtu.be/Z3Z_6yO3LnA     Tips for Singles: Do something loving for yourself  Massage Pedicure Bubble bath Make a list of things you love or appreciate about yourself Buy yourself something you love Candy Flowers Something you’ve been wanting Browse singles sites online Do something enjoyable with a friend(s) Tips for New Relationships Keep it light & fun Discuss what you’d like to do together Tips for Established Relationships Flower(s) Chocolate Special card Dinner & movie Personal love note with what you love & appreciate about your partner Love Read more [...]

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Practice Peace

Here is a simple yet profound exercise to "Practice Peace" so you can be more peaceful & open to enjoying your life in any moment you desire. From this place of peace you can be proactive in getting your needs met, rather than reactive thus creating conflict within yourself and in your life. This exercise can be done wherever you are, doing whatever you are doing. Especially if you are upset, sad, angry, frustrated, thinking negative thoughts about anything or anyone. It"s meditation in motion! Practicing Peace exercise: Bringing your attention to your breath.... Take slow full deep breaths....deep into your belly.....filling up the sides of your lungs.....then a relaxed out Read more [...]

3 Tips for a Happy Relationship

Men and Women think & feel differently.  Generally, a man will ask the question "What do you think", and she will tell you her feelings (or intuition) about something. A women will ask a man " How do you feel", he will tell you what he thinks. It"s a natural way our brains are wired. A man's opinion or thoughts are just as important as a woman's feelings or intuition. With this understanding you can honor & love each other better. Here are some helpful tips: 1.  For women to know: If you want a man to listen to you, you'll need to let him know, that it would make you feel better if he "just listen" and that you don’t need him to figure anything out for you or to try Read more [...]

The 5 Love Languages Quiz

It's been said by many Relationship experts that appreciation is a vital ingredient in your relationships. They also say love and appreciation go hand in hand. Gary Chapman wrote a book called The 5 Love Languages. He discovered there are different ways people feel loved (and appreciated). Take the quiz below to find out how you and your partner feel love/appreciated! Be sure to let others know, so they can show you that you are loved! :) The 5 Love Languages® What if you could say or do just the right thing guaranteed to make that special someone feel loved? The secret is learning the right love language! Millions of couples have learned the simple way to express Read more [...]

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