Sandra Bullock and Jessie James

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MOST IN LOVE: SANDRA & JESSE

“Best Actress Sandra Bullock and husband Jesse James were, hands-down, the loviest, cuddliest, schmoopiest couple at the awards, with a whopping 68% of readers picking the twosome as most in love.” from people.com

I totally get this, because of  the ”hidden ingreidents”, which is a large piece of the whole. Check this out….here’s their Compatikey results: They have more “sameness” on the hidden ingreidents than “difference’s”. They have the same Relationship Style, both Footballs. (To understand compatikey lingo, look under Compatikey on this site).  You can see and feel the “magnetic” chemistry, and their “movement chemistry” is “in sync”. Their “Inner Style” is “smooth and easy”. They do have an opposite ‘Plan Style”. She’s a “Pen” and he’s a “Pencil”. All and all, this is an easy, fun, full of great chemistry and a deep timeless love! This is going to be happening for a long time!

Relationship Science: What we have in common is far more likely to sustain long-term and meaningful relationships than what is different about us.  Understanding our visible and invisible differences is a key to diminishing or eliminating misunderstandings, making it so much easier to accept and love the wonderful things about each other. 

 

 

Renee Zellweger and Bradley Cooper

How cute are these two? You can see how naturally comfortable they are together. It’s the invisible dynamic’s they have together. I will explain what those are.

For more information about the “styles, etc.” look under “Compatikey” on this site.

Renee and Bradley have the same “Relationship and Plan Style”. They are Football/Pencils.  Plus the chemistry is magnetic and their movement chemistry is insync! Their “Inner Style” is level 3, which is smooth and easy, and they have a good friendship on top of all that. I think for these two it will be easy to be happy together for a long time.

Relationship Science: What we have in common is far more likely to sustain long-term and meaningful relationships than what is different about us.  Understanding our visible and invisible differences is a key to diminishing or eliminating misunderstandings, making it so much easier to accept and love the wonderful things about each other. 

Compatikey show’s the invisible sameness and differences!

As we move thru life...with love

As we move thru life……holding joy in one hand and sorrow in the other…..resisting neither……accepting both, we can be open to giving and receiving love…..as best we can….as best we can desire!

Wishing you peace and blessings …..in service of Love…..Patty                  LOGOSMALL

Prince William Not Prepping Wedding Invitations Just Yet - Couples, Kate Middleton, Prince William : People.com

“It’s the question that keeps coming up – and the one he keeps playfully deflecting.” from people.com via Prince William Not Prepping Wedding Invitations Just Yet – Couples, Kate Middleton, Prince William : People.com.

For more information about the “styles, etc.” look under “Compatikey” on this site.

Basketball Relationship Style is good at “playfully deflecting”, that’s what Prince Williams Relationship Style is.  I think he will be doing that that for awhile, and I’ll tell you why. They have more “hidden” differences than same. In Compatikey terms William has the  Basketball Relationship Style and the Pen Plan Style. Kate is a Football/Pencil. What is holding them together is what I call the glue of a relationship, which is the “Chemistry”.  He has a “magnetic” connection to her and their “movement chemistry” is in sync! I think they will be doing this dance for a long time!

Can Love Survive Scandal? - TIGER WOODS & ELIN NORDEGREN - Scandals & Feuds, Elin Nordegren, Tiger Woods : People.com

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You can see how happy they seemed until things became clearer to Elin. People.com article below. First, my take on their relationship.

I think for a number of reasons, they are going to stay married for awhile. We’ll just have a look at the ”Hidden Ingredients”, however. Tiger genuinely is attracted to Elin. They have a combination of “magnetic and friendship chemistry”. You can see even in this picture their “movement chemistry….clumsy”. Makes sense…..too. The “Inner Style” is “extreme”, so it either really works or it really doesn’t. They both have the same “Relationship Style”, which is “Basketball”. Elin, however is the “Pen Plan Style” and likes to stick to the plan…..and in situation, it’s the plan of marriage! Tiger will be grateful for her ability to do this and her willingness to forgive him, and will be very generous with his love. 

For how long…..is the real question? We’ll if they can rise above, learn good things from these challenges and get some help to just focus on love, more often than not…..all will be well.

Wishing you both the best!

Ps. for those of you who don’t understand Compatikey lingo yet…it will be under “Love Consultations” on this site soon. :)

Can Love Survive Scandal? – TIGER WOODS & ELIN NORDEGREN – Scandals & Feuds, Elin Nordegren, Tiger Woods : People.com.

The Scandal: More than a dozen women claim (in detail) to have had sex with the golfer – who has apologized for his infidelities.
Did Love Survive? To be determined. Reports say Nordegren wants to save her marriage to the recently rehabbed Woods, and the couple’s wedding pastor predicts they’ll make it work.

YouTube - Couples Retreat (2009) -Official Movie Trailer [HQ]

This is a great movie to watch on Valentines Day…or any day! I loved this movie! It touched on many of the issues, joys and frustrations couples face. I was pleased with the way they integrated humor with the depth of feeling that is present in partnerships. Entertaining and enlightening, as well as an opportunity to experience a taste of the beauty in Bora Bora at the St. Regis Resort!YouTube – Couples Retreat (2009) -Official Movie Trailer [HQ].

Valentine's Day

heart imageValentines Day is coming up! As a Love Consultant, I’d like to suggest a couple of ways to make the day special.

First let me say, Valentines Day was probably created by a woman, perhaps even a woman who worked for Hallmark. That said, let’s have fun, and make it a little special for your loved ones, especially if you have a sweetie.

Guys, as you probably already know, something is better than nothing. Whether it’s true or not, most women take it to mean you don’t care about them, if you don’t make notice of the day and of your love for her, in some way. Silly as that seems, it’s the way it is. Only do what you can enjoy doing. Suggestions below.

Below are some suggestions for both men and women.

1. Anything ( candy, flowers, whatever you know she/he likes ) with a little love note or card attached to it.

2. Most people love to know what you love about them, so you could add that in a card if you feel like doing so.

3. Love Coupons, for favors of any kind ;) Be creative and have fun making these.

3. You can also get creative with setting the stage  for love, however simple or complex you’d like to make it. Both men and women need to get in the mind set of both giving and receiving pleasure and love. Some suggestions: light candles, or wood stove, have enjoyable relaxing music, a bubble bath or hot tub, finger foods to feed each other for a light meal and foreplay! Enjoy saying you love each other in one or a variety of ways.

In the service of Love, Patty :)

Ashton and Demi

These two clearly have the level 3 Chemistry, which is the “magnetic” chemistry I speak of, using the “Compatikey Relationship Mapping Tool”. You can see and feel it just from this picture of the two of them. They both have the same Relationship Style (Basketball), which adds to their magnectic chemistry!

10 Best Celeb Quotes This Week – - 10 Best Quotes, Ashton Kutcher, Demi Moore : People.com

Brad and Angelina

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This relationship will never seem stable for too long….but it will always come back to center, as long as Brad has the energy to see to that.

Angelina is a Basketball/Pencil, and Brad is a Football/Pen. Their Inner Style is extreme.
Angelina has a higher tolerance for stress, and likes to keep things “stimulating”! Hang in there Brad….I’m sure you feel it’s well worth the work! :)